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The American Way of Death (1963)

av Jessica Mitford

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" ... Here is a whole complex of commercial operations that result in funerals whose expense, display and mumbo jumbo are unrelated to any Christian or Jewish tradition and virtually unheard of in any other country today. And there is precise information on what is being done to lower the cost and raise the dignity of burial in the United States."… (mer)
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Funny the books that pop up in your recommendations or in the descriptions of other books in your recommendations. Yes, I read this book in high school and it was very interesting. I had never read anything quite like it. People may have looked a little askance at me for reading this (I got a couple of comments) but it was very good information. ( )
  Chica3000 | Dec 11, 2020 |
776. The American Way of Death, by Jessica Mitford (read 29 Aug 1964) This book says some good things. ( )
  Schmerguls | Jun 3, 2013 |
Those, in the animal kingdom, who feast on death are called scavengers and the word 'noble' is not one associated with them! So it is with funeral directors, a bunch of ignoble turkey-necked vultures seeking to clean the bones of a lifetime of hard work and savings in one fell swoop. The American model is more successful than that of many countries, including the UK, because of the carefuly-nurtured acceptance, nay, great desire for, open-coffin funerals.

In countries where a closed-coffin is the norm, as in the UK, there is a lot of expenditure that can be saved. A coffin only need look respectable from the outside, it doesn't need fancy interior fittings and faux-satin bed sheets. The dead don't have to be embalmed at great cost nor do they have to have their faces stuffed with bits of paper to simulate plumpness, then make-up so they can look as though they were just asleep, wigs, special back-less shoes, clothes or anything else.

Then there is the desire for preservation. A bit like potted meat it's not enough to preserve the body, the container must be one that also lasts. So there the funeral directors have you with hermetically-sealed metal coffins of immense strength, strong enough to enclose all the explosive gases the decaying body will generate, that cost an awful lot of money. Then there are their first-cousins in rapacity, the florists. Wreaths can cost in the hundreds and with a good relationship with a funeral director a florist can expect to make thousands from each funeral.

The marketing techniques of these scavengers is worse even than ambulance-chasing lawyers. They play on the emotions of the bereaved, and if the bereaved don't seem to care to give their late loved one 'the best possible send-off', then they add a bit of guilt into the mixure. And if the dearly-departed was clued-in enough to have a funeral policy all paid-up, a million small-print clauses are invoked in order to milk money from the bereaveds' possible inheritance. One way or another that day is going to cost some as many thousands as the funeral directors can milk. The average cost of a funeral in the US, without the cost of a plot, church expenses or a headstone, is $12-15,000.

Two groups of people are totally immune to this. Muslims and Jews who bury their dead as simply and as fast as possible in plain shrouds and boxes without flowers, leaving no time or opportunity for the vultures to hook their claws in except perhaps for a hearse with no extras.

The green movement isn't much better. My niece, who left a little boy turned four a few days later, had a green funeral. She was buried under a tree in a willow basket. The cost of this coffin was over $800 and the rest of the funeral costs, the cars etc were the same as any other

So how do you get out of all of that? You research it yourself first and lay down strict instructions with people who have both the power and the desire to follow them. Then you have to hope they don't succumb to emotional pressure.

I know how I'm going to be buried. I want to be cremated and my ashes cast with concrete as a reef ball, resting in a coral reef. On my little contribution will be a brass plaque with my names and dates. My nearest and dearest will witness me being dropped overboard and will forever have the co-ordinates, latitude and longitude of where I lie and shelter fishes in my nooks and crannies decorated with sea-urchin flowers and gently waving seaweeds. Or if that's too much trouble, just drop me overboard somewhere wrapped in an old sail and I'll feed the fishes directly.

Either way, the money I worked hard for will go in great part to my sons and not the men with the cultivated sad expressions who sit in their offices waiting for the death knell and then rush out dressed in black rubbing their hands. Business!

The book is years old and a bit out of date, new techniques for milking money from the grieving have been developed, a business must grow or else stagnate and errr, die.

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1 rösta Petra.Xs | Apr 2, 2013 |
First published in 1963 this book is an expose of the American funeral industry - Mitford presents the facts, which she researched extensively, and does so in a manner which leaves you open-mouthed with disbelief, furious, and amused - all at the same time. Apparently after the book was first published the annual turnover of undertakers in the US dropped by 30% - although I'm not sure that funeral homes have changed their practices very much in the intervening years. The funeral business is, after all, a business and it is involved in selling 'services' to people at their most fragile moments. A very good book. ( )
  PennyAnne | Dec 22, 2012 |
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  LiterarilyChallenged | Feb 23, 2009 |
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Funerals are becoming more and more a part of the American way of life. Howard C. Raether, Executive Secretary, National Funeral Directors Association
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Dedicated to my husband Robert Treuhaft with much gratitude for his untiring collaboration in all phases of the preparation of this book
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