Amra Pajalic

Wasn't sure if I would like this book, but in the end, was engrossed by their stories and perhaps have a better understanding of some of my students. 12 Australian Muslim people of differing ages were interviewed about their lives - how they came to Australia, what their families were like, how their religion impacted on their lives and choice of partner, etc etc. Was a little disappointed that there seemed to be a disproportional amount of Lebanese -Australians but apart from that minor criticism this was an eye-opening book for me, a non-Muslim. It will be interesting to see how students engage ( or don't with it). Stand out stories were the Five Minute Engagement ( about the problems of dating when your religion and family are involved), The Road to Self-Acceptance is paved with Tim-tams ( how using a veil and covering attire hides body issues) and Leaving God (where the pressures of Islam force a young man to completely denounce his religion and turn to communism). There is also the tale of Australia's Miss World Muslim entrant, a lesbian Muslim and how using a contact sport can help you gain acceptance. Overall, I was very sad however, that every single story told of a childhood of growing up different and bullied because of their appearance and religion. I thought Australia was a tolerant country but I was wrong. I felt ashamed but I also remember being picked on because I was a Catholic so perhaps everyone has experienced it. Hopefully this book, if read by today's youth in Australia, will lead to greater tolerance and understanding.… (mer)