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Verk av John Sims Townsend

Boundaries with Kids (1998) 1,425 exemplar, 6 recensioner
Boundaries in Marriage (1999) 1,241 exemplar, 6 recensioner
12 "Christian" Beliefs That Can Drive You Crazy (1994) 393 exemplar, 1 recension
Hiding from Love (1991) 352 exemplar
The Mom Factor (1996) 262 exemplar, 2 recensioner
Raising Great Kids (1999) 243 exemplar
Who's Pushing Your Buttons? (2004) 182 exemplar, 1 recension
Loving People: How to Love and Be Loved (2008) 126 exemplar, 3 recensioner
Boundaries with Kids Workbook (1998) 81 exemplar
Safe People Workbook (1995) 45 exemplar
Hiding from Love Workbook (1991) 18 exemplar
Sinirlar (2017) 7 exemplar
Boundaries 3 exemplar
Relacionamentos Saudáveis (2006) 2 exemplar
Ribos paaugliams (2020) 1 exemplar
與奧客共舞 / Handling Difficult People (2008) 1 exemplar, 1 recension

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What the Bible Really Says (1989) — Bidragsgivare — 101 exemplar, 1 recension

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Födelsedag
1952
Kön
male
Nationalitet
USA
Födelseort
Smithfield, North Carolina, USA

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A few notes from the book. Mostly I highlighted, and made notes in Kindle.

Chapter 4: The Return of Desire
Banish Victimhood
1. Global helplessness
2. A focus on the bad other
3. The perception of moral superiority

Chapter 8: You Grieve and Let It Go
Chapter 8 describes two categories of love-gone-bad songs. Both types “provide a necessary part of the picture,” but something is missing; “You must grieve what was.”

Grief: What It Is and What It Does for You
“Grief is letting go of what you cannot keep.”

Six Components for Grieving a Lost Relationship (there is a section for each of these.)
1. Acknowledge the attachment
2. Accept that you can’t control the loss
3. Name what you valued
1. Because you must say good-bye to the entire person, not simply the negative parts of the person.
4. Surround yourself with people who are comforting
1. How do you know if someone has the capacity to comfort? By the degree to which they remain present with you when you grieve.
5. Allow the sadness
6. Give yourself the gift of time

Ecclesiastes 7:3 Frustration is better than laughter, because a sad face is good for the heart. (NIV)

Ecclesiastes 7:3 Sorrow is better than laughter: for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better. (KJV)
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bread2u | 2 andra recensioner | May 15, 2024 |
This book wasn’t as meaningful to me as I expected it to be. I liked their quotations with the Bible. Sometimes I didn’t quite see how the quotation supported what they were saying. Somehow this book just didn’t click with me. It’s a very popular book, so it might be great for someone else. Come to think of it, I’m not into self-help books these days.

Chapters 1-4 set the background on problems in human development of boundaries.

Chapter 5: Ten Laws of Boundaries
1. The law of sowing and reaping
2. The law of responsibility
3. The law of power: (What power do we have)
4. The law of respect
5. The law of motivation (Love or fear or guilt)
6. The law of evaluation (Does it hurt or harm - they are different)
7. The law of proactivity
8. The law of envy
9. The law of activity (Passivity never pays off)
10. The law of Exposure (Boundaries need to be made visible to others & communicated)

Part 1
1. A Day in a Boundaryless Life
2. What Does a Boundary Look Like
3. Boundary Problems
4. How Boundaries are Developed
5. 5. Ten Laws of Boundaries
6. Common Boundary Myths
Part 2: Boundary Conflicts
Part 3: Developing Healthy Boundaries
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