Reading a book because of a catchy title is not always a good idea. I've been disappointed more than a few times. But that was not the case this time. This book is indeed beautifully unique! And for the heck of it I'll throw in a few adjectives of my own. Let's go with beautifully profound, boldly defiant, and brashly humorous ! ( )

I know next to nothing about football except that it involves a funny oblong-shaped brown ball, men running on a field, and apparently it makes otherwise intelligent people do pretty stupid things, like marathon binge eat buffalo wings until they pass out.

Like many others, I first heard about Chris Kluwe in the now infamous online letter where he took on Maryland Del. Emmett Burns (who is sadly, from my state, tho not from my district) and his admonishment to Ravens player Brendon Ayanbadejo. I, like the rest of the internet, gleefully read the letter and cheered on Kluwe's amazing wit and skillful use of profanity in defense of Truth, Justice, and the American Way.

And then I forgot about him, filing his name alongside Ayanbadejo's in the recesses of my mind. I was reminded of him when Kluwe took over John Scalzi's Whatever blog for a day to tout his new book.

SOLD.

I bought it that very day. So Chris, if you're reading this, you owe John a huge number of beers for the large contingent of book sales he got for you from your fellow geeks who don't follow sports.

This was a fast and very enjoyable read. I readily admit that I didn't always follow the football allusions but the writing was so engaging I still enjoyed those bits anyway. It also gave me a new perspective inside the mind of a pro football player.

And the non-football related essays, I swear I could have written them. During one particular one, I remember thinking, "Is this guy in my head or something???"

Fun, thoughtful, thought-provoking, and eloquent collection of essays. Recommended. ( )

OMG I adored this. You can't read the whole thing at once; it gets to be overkill. This SOB is smart and funny. ( )

Absolutely phenomenal. ( )

From my Cannonball Read 5 Review...

I was not aware of Mr. Kluwe (punter, formerly of the Minnesota Vikings, currently of the Oakland Raiders) until he wrote his now famous letter, posted on Deadspin, ripping a Maryland elected official a new one for suggesting that football players should not be able to speak out in favor of civil rights. (http://deadspin.com/5941348/they-wont-magically-turn-you-into-a-lustful-cockmonster-chris-kluwe-explains-gay-marriage-to-the-politician-who-is-offended-by-an-nfl-player-supporting-it). In fact, an attempt to replace the vulgarity in that letter (lustful cockmonster) resulted in the title of the book (Beautifully Unique Sparkleponies).

The book is not a memoir; it is a collection of essays – some previously printed, some new for the book. It’s Mr. Kluwe’s way of sharing his thoughts about life. Some chapters focus on football (though not all, nor even most); most focus on his ideas about how we can improve society. He suggests that the things he values most in life are empathy, justice and truth, and spends time discussing his support for equal rights for gay and lesbian people.

I really wanted to like this book. Like, kind of desperately. I follow Mr. Kluwe on Twitter (@ChrisWarcraft), and have enjoyed his 140-character comments. I also fully agree that just because someone is in a position such as he is (celebrity, well-known football player, generally famous person) they don’t forfeit their rights to have an opinion. He seems to be a progressive libertarian, although I’m not sure he’d agree with that, because from reading the book (especially the entertaining chapter ‘Who is John Galt”) I get the idea that he is not a big fan of libertarians. However, possibly accidentally, much of what he says shows a distinct lack of empathy in areas, and a few of his statements read like they came right out of the straight white libertarian bro guidebook.

Perhaps I’m judging him unfairly; I had admittedly high expectations, and since he has cleared the bar of basic human decency of recognizing that gay and lesbian people are, you know, people, I think I was looking for him to hold similarly progressive views in other areas. Perhaps he does, but doesn’t realize how his words come across. Let me share some examples (jotted down into Evernote when I was listening to the book, so I won’t have exact quotes):

- The way he characterizes welfare came across as at least partially buying in to the bullshit ‘welfare queen’ concept. Mr. Kluwe seems to fully recognize that people do need help from others (see the aforementioned John Galt essay), but his words suggest that there’s a short window there, and that if someone is on it longer than his pre-determined length of time, then they are just milking the system. Eh. Really? That’s not a nuanced view.
- One section gave me the impression that he thinks unions are bad, and that union workers are lazy people who have no incentive to work hard. That was definitely off-putting and disappointing.
- He made a prison rape joke (of the ‘don’t drop the soap’ variety). Really? That’s empathy?
- He’s super self-righteous when it comes to atheism. He appeared to willfully misinterpret the definition so that he could claim that he’s morally superior because he calls himself ‘agnostic.’ I’d like to point out to Mr. Kluwe that the majority of atheists out there would certainly believe in god if there were actual evidence; their stance is that CURRENT evidence is insufficient. They aren’t claiming to know definitively that there is not a god, so the argument that they are just as irrational as religious people is not only super old, but super incorrect.
- His go-to voice (I got the audio-book) when he wants the person speaking to sound unintelligent is a southern accent. That’s regionalist and not cool.
- Finally, he REALLY dropped the ball in understanding domestic violence. He essentially assumes people stay in those situations because they think things will get better, and they are just liars lying to themselves. Read up on domestic violence. Learn about it. DO NOT call the survivors who stay ‘liars.’ That’s insulting and shows an utter lack of the real issues around being able to leave. For example, one might certainly know things aren’t going to get better, but fear the whole BEING KILLED BY THEIR PARTNER WHEN THEY LEAVE thing. Not empathetic.

I can’t recommend the book. It’s fine, there are definitely some really good parts, and as I said, the writing is not bad. ( )