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Consent

av Annabel Lyon

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"Saskia and Jenny--twins--are alike in appearance only: Saskia is a grad student with a single-minded focus on her studies, while Jenny is glamorous, thrill-seeking, and capricious. Still, when Jenny is severely injured in an accident, Saskia puts her life on hold to be with her sister. Sara and Mattie are sisters with another difficult dynamic. Mattie, who is younger, is intellectually disabled. Sara loves nothing more than fine wines, perfumes, and expensive clothing, and leaves home at the first opportunity. But when their mother dies, Sara inherits the duty of caring for her sister. Arriving at the house one day, she is horrified to discover that Mattie has married their mother's handyman. The relationship ends in tragedy. Now, Sara and Saskia, both caregivers for so long, are on their own--and come together through a cascade of circumstances as devastating as they are unexpected. Razor-sharp and profoundly moving, Consent is a thought-provoking exploration of the complexities of familial duty, of how love can become entangled with guilt, resentment, and regret"--… (mer)
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This book left me angry and horrified and I don't think that was Lyon's intention.

I am fully willing to accept that this was marketing error, and not a sign that Lyon is entirely morally bankrupt. It was marketed as "General Fiction", but it reads as a "Psychological Thriller". General fiction (aka literary fiction) usually reflects the ethical and moral views of its author. Psychological thrillers look at the world through the eyes of an emotionally or psychologically damaged person to show how people justify horrible behaviour that no one with a functioning moral compass could possibly condone.

***Spoilers Ahead***

"Consent" reads as a perfectly crafted psychological thriller which ends with two rich people murdering a poor person with addiction problems to avoid taking responsibility for their own feelings of guilt. I wish I was kidding, but no, that is the actual climax of this book.

Saskia is so self-absorbed that she does nothing help her sister when she is left bedridden after a life-altering car crash. She feels guilty for not doing what she could to help Jenny (her sister), and remaining a passive observer to their father's domineering treatment Jenny after her accident. She transfers this burden of guilt onto the drunk driver who hit Jenny and caused her injuries.

Sara resents having to care for her mentally disabled sister Mattie after their mother's death. Domineering and controlling, Sara breaks up her sister's marriage to a kind but poor man, Robert (who their mother knew and approved of), because she believes Mattie isn't mentally able to know what love is. Robert relapses into his drug addiction after losing Mattie and starts demanding Sara let him see Mattie again. Sara refuses. The tragic outcome of Sara's arrogance is that Robert, high on drugs, stops Mattie in the street. He grabs her shoulders and begs her to come back to him. Startled, Mattie stumbles backwards, falls, and smashes her head on the concrete, killing her instantly. Robert makes no attempt to flee and is devastated by her death. He does jail time for manslaughter. Guilt begins to consume Sara's thoughts, but instead of acknowledging that she was wrong to break up Mattie's marriage, she projects all of her guilt onto Robert and starts stalking him after he is released from prison. Again, no, I'm not kidding, she actually does this.

Robert has sobered up after his prison time, is in addiction counselling, and is gainfully employed as a construction worker. It seems as though, with the exception of being stalked by a psycho rich woman, his life is finally getting back on track. Unfortunately, Sara and Saskia meet after Saskia discovers that Robert was the driver of the car that hit Jenny, and they hatch a plan to murder Robert. The murder is carried out successfully and the authorities declare it a suicide.

The book ends with Saskia skipping town to start a new life in what I suspect is supposed to be a "happily ever after" ending. We are supposed to be delighted that Saskia and Sara have gotten away with murder, because they are rich people who were incapable of dealing with their own feelings of guilt. Ugh! ( )
  Gail.C.Bull | Aug 15, 2023 |
I can't say I liked Lyon's book although it is clearly very well-written. It's about two sets of sisters, two of them disabled. And although there is so much more to the story I wasn't able to connect with any of the characters or the story in any meaningful way which made it feel remote. I don't have any siblings so I could be wrong in this, but these women did not show the sibling (or twin) relationships that I imagine should be there. The focus on perfume and clothes, particularly one dress, was puzzling and sorry to say, it went right over my head. The ending came as a surprise although I should have been prepared for it. What I enjoyed most about this thought-provoking story is that it's set in and around Vancouver. ( )
  VivienneR | Aug 8, 2021 |
3.5? This may change in coming weeks.

Vancouver, BC. Two women with sisters with mental diagnoses--Sara's sister Mattie is mentally disabled and will never live alone. Saskia's twin sister Jenny has always been impulsive and selfish (he diagnosis is never told to the reader).

Both women are now dealing with grief over the deaths of their sisters. Wracked by grief and guilt, they feel very alone, as their friendships with others are not as deep as they thought. They meet when Saskia starts looking into Jenny's friends and finds a link between the two deaths.

This story is gets darker as it goes on. I liked the dark parts, the storytelling of grief and loneliness and guilt. But somehow the perfume (see cover and story) and fashion thing is supposed to be important, they come up over and over, and that part I really didn't quite get. ( )
  Dreesie | Mar 27, 2021 |
Saskia and Jenny are twins but only equal in looks, their personalities could hardly differ more. Where Saskia is diligent and studious, Jenny enjoys life at the fullest and is always looking for some more thrill. Only a car accident in which she is seriously injured can put an end to her posh and impulsive lifestyle and brings the sisters back together. Mattie and Sara are sisters, too, the first with an intellectual disability, the second striving for academic success and the life she knows from stylish magazines. The latter sister pair, too, moves apart only to be forced together by fate again. Looking for reasons behind the tragic events, Saskia and Sara recognise that there is an unexpected link between them which goes far beyond the parallels of their sisterhoods.

I totally adored the first half on Annabel Lyon’s novel. Showing four young women emancipating themselves, developing personalities and ideas of who they want to be and how they want to live their life was wonderful to read. Even though the parallels show quite from the start, they are two quite unique sets of siblings which do have complicated but nevertheless deep bonds. Especially when Saskia and Sara come to the critical points in their sisters’ lives, they themselves are hit to the core, too, and have to make far-going decisions which also deeply impact their own lives. Throughout the novel, we see a great elaboration of characters with very authentic nuances and facets.

The second half did not convince me that much which, I assume, was mainly due to the fact that the central aspect of the relationships between the sisters was lost by then. Even though here the link between the two pairs was established and some secrets revealed, I found it lacked a bit of depths.

I found the title quite interestingly chosen, very often, “consent” is immediately associated with relationships and intercourse, but in the novel, however, also other aspects, e.g. to what extent the sisters approve of each other’s choices and decisions is explored. Especially Saskia investigates her sister’s life and by walking in her shoes, detects new sides of herself. ( )
  miss.mesmerized | Jan 28, 2021 |
I remember Annabel Lyon for her 2009 book The Golden Mean which I enjoyed very much. When I heard about another of her novels being published this fall, I requested an advance reading copy from the publisher.

This book focuses on two pairs of sisters. Sara and Matti are first introduced. Sara is an academic who has a love for fine wines, designer clothing, and expensive perfumes; she will spend a fortune on a dress. Her sister Matti is affectionate and trusting. Because Matti is developmentally challenged, Sara eventually becomes Matti’s caregiver.

The second pair is Saskia and Jenny. Though twins, they are total opposites in terms of personality. Saskia is the serious, responsible, hard-working university student while Jenny is the glamourous interior designer whose life is dominated by her self-centredness, impulsivity, and thrill-seeking. Because of an accident, Saskia has to make decisions for Jenny.

For almost three-quarters of the novel, chapters alternate between the two sets of sisters. In each tale, one sister, without consent, becomes responsible for the other. There are other superficial similarities like obsessions with clothing and perfume, but I wondered if the two narratives would ever actually intersect. Then tragedies bring them together in a shocking way.

The book examines how sisterly love can be entangled with resentment. Sara loves Matti but sees her as a burden who robs her “of the privacy Sara had sought so fiercely and protected for so long.” Sara admits to a friend, “’I wanted her at a distance’” and “The truth was that she was mean to Mattie, she was impatient, she was at times very, very cruel.” Likewise, Saskia loves Jenny but feels she can never escape her twin: “Jenny was her sun and moon: there was no escaping her. Saskia was ever alert to the ways her sister could hurt her, ever afraid of the ways Jenny might hurt herself.” Saskia thinks about the complicated truth of loving her sister: “Of course she and Jenny were closer to each other than anyone else. That closeness didn’t shield her from Jenny’s manipulations, her cruelty. Of course Saskia loved Jenny. That didn’t mean she wasn’t also frightened of her, and frightened for her . . . Jenny was the kind of person who could fly away or go up in flames at any moment. It was exhausting to be her counterweight, her rock, her extinguisher, her control.”

The novel also explores how grief can be entangled with guilt. Sara makes decisions for Matti without considering what might be best for her sister: “She had taken the sun and the moon from Matti.” A friend points out to Sara that she has not suffered because of having Matti in her life; he asks her sarcastically, “’Tell me all the opportunities you’ve had to turn down. Tell me all the jobs that were refused you. Tell me about your life of poverty and disenfranchisement and abuse. . . . You have money and education and power.’” Sara finds herself “chained in the masturbatorium of her own guilt, clawing at her own pinkest places.” Though she claims guilt will not consume her, Saskia says she is the one responsible for her sister’s fate: “’Me . . . I’m the one . . . I wanted her to know it was me. . . . Just like I want you to know it was me.’”

As the title indicates, consent is a theme. As a medical ethicist, Sara writes a paper, with Matti in mind, “on capacity and consent in adults with special needs” and Saskia, thinking about Jenny’s choices, writes a literary essay “on the implications of consent in Réage.” Neither Sara nor Saskia consents to the responsibilities thrust on them. Most significantly, the novel asks the reader to consider what s/he might consent to because of love.

I became impatient with parts of the book. Sara’s focus on perfumes and fashion and the purchase of a particular dress becomes tedious, as does Saskia’s later fixation with clothes. These sections have a purpose: “Clothes as costume and code.” It is noteworthy that Sara wastes an inheritance and what she spends on clothes “’could put a kid through college.’” Even Saskia asks, “’And I’m wearing my sister’s clothes, so whatever that says about me -.’” I just found that many of the descriptions were too detailed.

The novel’s best quality is its portrayal of relationships between sisters. I think anyone with a sister will acknowledge the realism of the complex sisterly relationships developed in this thought-provoking book.

Note: I received a digital galley from the publisher via NetGalley.

Please check out my reader's blog (https://schatjesshelves.blogspot.com/) and follow me on Twitter (@DCYakabuski). ( )
  Schatje | Sep 25, 2020 |
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"Saskia and Jenny--twins--are alike in appearance only: Saskia is a grad student with a single-minded focus on her studies, while Jenny is glamorous, thrill-seeking, and capricious. Still, when Jenny is severely injured in an accident, Saskia puts her life on hold to be with her sister. Sara and Mattie are sisters with another difficult dynamic. Mattie, who is younger, is intellectually disabled. Sara loves nothing more than fine wines, perfumes, and expensive clothing, and leaves home at the first opportunity. But when their mother dies, Sara inherits the duty of caring for her sister. Arriving at the house one day, she is horrified to discover that Mattie has married their mother's handyman. The relationship ends in tragedy. Now, Sara and Saskia, both caregivers for so long, are on their own--and come together through a cascade of circumstances as devastating as they are unexpected. Razor-sharp and profoundly moving, Consent is a thought-provoking exploration of the complexities of familial duty, of how love can become entangled with guilt, resentment, and regret"--

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