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Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You

av Susan Forward

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A practical guide to better communication that will break the blackmail cycle for good, by one of the nation's leading therapists, Susan Forward. "Breathe a sigh of relief! Susan Forward helps you identify and correct an intensely destructive and confusing pattern of relating with those you love. I highly recommend this important book!"-Susan Jeffers, Ph.D., author of Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway "If you really loved me..." "After all I've done for you..." "How can you be so selfish..." Do any of the above sound familiar? They're all examples of emotional blackmail, a powerful form of manipulation in which people close to us threaten to punish us for not doing what they want. Emotional blackmailers know how much we value our relationships with them. They know our vulnerabilities and our deepest secrets. They are our mothers, our partners, our bosses and coworkers, our friends and our lovers. And no matter how much they care about us, they use this intimate knowledge to give themselves the payoff they want: our compliance. Susan Forward knows what pushes our hot buttons. Just as John Gray illuminates the communications gap between the sexes in Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, and Harriet Lerner describes an intricate dynamic in The Dance of Anger, so Susan Forward presents the anatomy of a relationship damaged by manipulation, and gives readers an arsenal of tools to fight back.… (mer)
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A lifesaver! Very direct, clear and very practical advices. ( )
  Marjoos | Nov 16, 2022 |
This is just another great book about how I got to where I was, not as relevant because I have moved on so much.
For more reviews see my blog: https://adventuresofabibliophile.blogspot.com
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  Serinde24 | Aug 17, 2018 |
Clarifies things like "why do I often feel like shit in my perfect relationship". ( )
  automatthias | Jun 19, 2017 |
This book is worth it for so many insightful comments and practical advice nuggets. The greatest of all is the response to the Emotional Blackmailer: "I am going to have to see whether that works for me and I will get back to you." I have used this as a litmus test for many situations hypothetically and practical. ( )
  alancaro | Apr 19, 2015 |
Interesting read. I needed a little more in-depth explanation on the actual implementation with particular situations/relationships. All around: very helpful. ( )
  Amethyst26 | Aug 9, 2012 |
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A practical guide to better communication that will break the blackmail cycle for good, by one of the nation's leading therapists, Susan Forward. "Breathe a sigh of relief! Susan Forward helps you identify and correct an intensely destructive and confusing pattern of relating with those you love. I highly recommend this important book!"-Susan Jeffers, Ph.D., author of Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway "If you really loved me..." "After all I've done for you..." "How can you be so selfish..." Do any of the above sound familiar? They're all examples of emotional blackmail, a powerful form of manipulation in which people close to us threaten to punish us for not doing what they want. Emotional blackmailers know how much we value our relationships with them. They know our vulnerabilities and our deepest secrets. They are our mothers, our partners, our bosses and coworkers, our friends and our lovers. And no matter how much they care about us, they use this intimate knowledge to give themselves the payoff they want: our compliance. Susan Forward knows what pushes our hot buttons. Just as John Gray illuminates the communications gap between the sexes in Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, and Harriet Lerner describes an intricate dynamic in The Dance of Anger, so Susan Forward presents the anatomy of a relationship damaged by manipulation, and gives readers an arsenal of tools to fight back.

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