Most of this book follows from the idea that kids are people and have needs and desires that are understandable if you actually try to understand them. It gives a lot of good conversation patterns for empathetically interacting with people who are frustrated or upset, which seem pretty useful for both kids and adults. ( )

Excellent strategies seriously hampered by archaic parenting styles.. If she stripped the book of the hundreds of casual references to hitting and spanking kids, it would have gotten 4 or 5 stars. As is, 2 stars is generous. ( )

This is a wonderful book that helps you evaluate and change your own communication tendencies and strategies with people of ANY age. Even though it's geared toward interacting with children, the principles apply universally. Loved it. ( )

Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be more effective with your children--and more supportive of yourself. The down-to-earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding. This book is full of practical, innovative ways to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships.Selected Reading Questionnaire.

Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be more effective with your children--and more supportive of yourself. The down-to-earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding. This book is full of practical, innovative ways to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships.Selected Reading Questionnaire.